The Word “Baby” in Break Up Songs

I hate it when in a song about a break up and hatred, the woman calls the man “baby”. Baby is what you call someone when you’re going out with them and actually care about them. It’s not meant to be told to a two timing pig. So why don’t you think before you write down a lyric for a song about your ex-boyfriend who broke your heart? Cause if he’s anything, it’s not your “baby”.